BURN THE BRUTAL

यत्र नार्यस्तु पूज्यन्ते रमन्ते तत्र देवता:                   यत्रैतास्तु न पूज्यन्तै सर्वास्तत्राफला क्रिया:

Manusmriti,a religious book of hindu mythology has regarded woman at superior rank in all races of humans. She is described as the pillar of any prosperous society. The shlok above very well defines the female’s  (naari) significance.The place where her presence glistens,the divine also respects that place but the place where she is abhored,that place is declared hell.
Sporadically the news of acid attacks in the morning comes in front of our eyes

 with every sip of tea. We show it to our wives,children but are we really bothered? Do we find any amicability with the attack victim? Do we ever try to alleviate the pain of these victims in the society?

NO..We just shun the facts,become the same as the other99% of humans and forget it with the time untill and unless we see the same news on some other day.           

Today acid attacks have been reported in many parts of the world.  It is around 1500 every year according to ACID SURVIVERS TRUST  INTERNATIONAL.Since1990s Bangladesh has been repoting the highest number of attacks  with 3512 attacked between 1990 to 2013 .This curse is mostly concentrated in south asia.Alone in pakistan in a year there are 250- 300 attacks,in Columbia around148.

CAUSES OF BRUTAL ATTACKS.

  • 80% done due to seepage of patriarchial mindset.it covers all under causes-
  • Misogynist culture impregnated into psyche of male( How could she challenge me OR Why cant she be submissive?)
  • 15% done due to property dispute.
  • Frustration over weaker sex
  • 41% from spurned lovers
  • Anger over rejection of any action

This attack leads to complete debilitation, loss of income and opportunity,and even social sequestration

Encountering the vedios of such victims, the punishment which should come in court’s mind is not imprisonment for 5- 10 years or fine of 5 lacs but TO BURN HIM ALIVE with the same acid which he used on the girl.He ll then come to know the pain,the grief  that the woman has suffered.This may not kill the pain of the woman completely but would alleviate most part of it.

QUANDARY OF FOUR LETTER WORDS

My indomitable urge to investigate and research has forced me to bring out my theory of LOVE and LIKE.
LOVE is just not a four letter word but a feeling of euphoria whereas LIKE is similar to love on the grounds of number of alphabets but it is not a feeling instead an emotion of ecstasy that too mortal.

Most of the Bollywood movies present fewling of love with lots of masalas. They say ,” if we fell into love we are neither able to have proper sleep nor feel hungry and even loose pur patience” Through tgeir songs they even say,” somewhere my heart has been stolen …its not with me.”

Thats all rubbish. How could you stay alive when you dont have your heart with you.
Another argument…
‘If you are not able to have proper sleep ,don’t feel hungry,lack patience then you have not fallen into love instead a vicious circle of some chronic disease.
Its better to contact a doctor.’

The question is still silent about the differences between love and like

1. LOVE is rigorous and vigorous whereas LIKE is spontaneous and dangled.
2. LOVE is constant but LIKE is variated
3.LOVE never comws out for a person due to his physical appearance instead it is a connection of two souls and minds. LIKE  always starts with physical appearance.
4. LIKE may happen with anyone, anything and anyplace bt LOVE always happens with specific one , specific thing , specific place.
5. LOVE engrosses a lot of mutual trust whereas there is no essential requirement of this element in LIKE.
6. LOVE is boundless , prolonged whereas LIKE is encapsulated.
7. When you are in LOVE , you are agile but when you are in LIKE you are dormant.

Songs of movies often say ,” pehli najar me aisa jadoo kar dia.mera man…mera jia”
How foolish these songs used to be.They derailed youths from their actual path.
There is nothing sort of LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. It is a misconception.
It needs to be replaced with LIKE.

8. LOVE is a perennial and penetrating process but LIKE is discontinuous.
9. LIKE never looks into the dark areas of other person but LOVE is a timely analysis of the other person in sporadic manner.
10. LOVE makes you audacious but LIKE never does so.
Lastly i would jst say,

” YOUR BEST FRIEND CAN BE YOUR BETTER LOVE”

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BHARAT MATA KI JAI..should say or not???

HAR HAR MAHADEV…
Being a banarasi, this jargon can be easily heard and spoken. Has ever anyone questioned over its significance and rationality? But still people are present in our country who would divide the countrymen into groups – one theist and other atheist and create war between them. These people are none other than misanthropists who are malicious and have only objective of establishing their supremacy.
Without highlighting the name of the malevolent people in India, i would condemn their thought of breaking India into parts and creating war on the grounds of our own bharat mata.
Firstly , in my conscience, the question arises that whether people are still having doubt on their nationality. If yes.. Then only the question ” should we say bharat mata ki jai” has sprouted from the seeds of either quandary or enveloped politics.

Being the only daughter of my mother, i never said ” MERI MATA KI JAI” Neither of us would have ever said it before.
But still we love her, respect her,admire her. There isn’t any formality we need to do on a daily basis to express our emotions. We just need to pour on our gratitude towards her through various informal ways. These ways could be caring her, taking precautions if we find symptoms of her illness, taking her to a doctor if she is ill instead of shouting MATA ki jai!!!

In a similar notion., instead of shouting BHARAT MATA KI JAI  that too only on 26 th January and 15th August , its better to adorn,embellish,enrich the beauty of BHARAT.
It cant be done through some words of mouth instead some actions against corruption , pollution. Trafficking, women insecurity .
We Indians need to get unified in order to restore the respect for BHARAT MATA in real sense not in fantasy lines.

BHARAT MATA could  be upraised and applauded only when we Indians, would understand the significance of the allegory used, the cause and effect of our existence in India.
Then only proper BHARAT MATA KI JAI could be sung…

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Women and Education

Since all life begins in the womb,where will world be without girls? No girls, no mothers , no homes, no families and finally no life at all! In spite of having a culture which is 5000 years old , it is unfortunate that the dowry system has become such a menace that parents prefer to kill their daughter today before she is born, rather than to bear the expenses of her marriage tomorrow.

Education is the only solution to overcome fear and frustration that makes life difficult for the girl child and her parents. Education empowers girls to rise out of poverty and ignorance, enabling them to become smart professionals. It gives them and promotes the sense of self esteem to the extent that they have the courage to challenge absolute customs such as dowry.

Whether highly paid professionals or proud home maker women make an invaluable contributions to their families. They do not need the support of utensils, clothes , jewels etc. to earn respect in their husband’s home.

For a well educated women ,can take proper care of her ward and oppose bad habits or rituals set up by a society that measures people by what they have  rather than what they are. By words and examples a mother can teach her children to value what is genuine and authentic ,to decide right and wrong, just and unjust and fair and unfair. She can thus prepare her family to be a part of a new society where the person is valued for himself not because of his belongings. When parents of girls take a bold step towards educating their daughters , motivating them to achieve success, they play their part in turning straw into gold. In ancient times it was considered honourable to burn a widow on her husband’s pyre if she too were some straw. Today the women has reached the pinnacle of success in every field- politics , education, administrative services, medicine, science , technology and many other fields. Girls have truly become the gold which is actually purified by the fire in which it is burnt.

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Raasleela..

Krishnam mam jeevan …krishnam mam sadhanam …krishnam sarveshwaram…krishnam parmeshwaram…shri krishna sharanam namah…

A mesmerizing dance performed in        benaras club by me and my dance troop ..among which were my gurus …shri karamveer singh..BHU .M.PA(bharatnatyam),dance teacher at sunbeam varuna..,shri amit kumar .BHU.M.PA(kathak) shri pramod vishwakarma BHU M.PA(bharatnatyam) , shreeparna mam BHU M.PA.(kathak).,chitranshi BHU M.PA 1 st yr( bharatnatyam)
vidhi mam..dance teacher at sunbeam varuna. And aayushi student at DPS..
It was all based on krishna’s wives satyabhama and rukmani’s incident in beginning..
On one hand bhama was a proudy gal..role played by shreeparna mam..she weighs gold equal to krishna bt neverthless each tym krishna become more weighted…then comes our rukmani…role played by chitranshi mam,who keeps a single tulsi leaf and the weight of krishna becomes exactly equivalent to it…this is the power of real and divine bhakti..
Furthur..we presented holi of vrindavan and raasleela performed by gopis…I was among them…everything went awesome..

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MY VIEWS ON RAILWAY BUDGET

Earlier…producer used to be the king of market…but now consumer is the king…
In a similar way…in indian railways authorities were the rulers but now in 2016 we,common passangers are the rulers…
1..a lot of comfort has been given to common man…like dial 139 for cancellation  …no need to move around the stations for the same.

2..women security is considered the need of hour ..hence cctv cameras gonna be installed at most stations.

3..the best part is that this railway budget has not influenced the fares..which has relieved lower n middle income groups to a larger  extent.

4..pollution n global warming…one of the biggest challenges faced by all the countries is solved to a greater extent by the upcoming usage of biotoilets.

5.vulnerable groups are privileged especially women and senior citizens through increasing quotas.

6.easy access and connectivity to internet through wifi.

Best results cud be seen in mahamana express…technological inbuilt train…

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Bin khae raha na jae…..

Yummyyy…..relishinggg…..foodstuff of vishwanath temple ,bhu …which can make you gluttonous …
Chhola samosa ,a tasty north indian snack…which increases ur appetite , n develops hunger in you..
In whole banaras it is quite difficult to find any substitute …u would be easily able to  get chhola samosa at every 10

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step of ur place….bt try the magic of  VT’s chhola samosa …u wud certainly get fascinated n captured by its long lasting n evergreen taste

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